Post #10: Be(cum)ing a Professional Dominatrix
Becoming a professional dominatrix means a lot to me. For the past ten years I’ve explored BDSM with play partners, lovers and romantic partners. And along side all of this I’ve written and fantasised about dominatrixes. For some reason I didn’t connect the dots. I always believed the stories I wrote were about others, but I’ve come to realise they were about myself. Now that I’ve taken the first steps towards becoming a professional dominatrix, I see how the stories I wrote are coming into fruition. I am becoming the dominatrix I wrote, fantasised and looked up to.
I am in the beginnings of this journey and I have a lot of training ahead of me. It’s important for me to be humble and not expect my transistion from lifestyle kinkster to professional to go quickly. In my private life sessions are very intimate, they’re messy, D.I.Y. and my tools are often everyday things (a belt, saran wrap, scarfs, my hands). I use my body to restrain my lovers, wrestling them down, pulling from the ankle or pressing them against a window. My words or absence of them usually set the tone. Everyday-kink for me doesn’t recquire much other than consent, negotiation and a safeword. But I do want more.
I fantasise about elaborate set-ups, high technological dungeons, large bondage entrampments, intricate medical rooms and brick dungeons. I fantasise about chaining people from ceilings, walls and floors. Sleeping on beds with subs caged underneath. Restraining subs to gynecology chairs and using a fuck machine to penetrate them. And becoming a professional dominatrix gives me the opportunity to have such decadent sessions.
In the picture of this post is my mentor Queen Li and I at one of my training sessions. This picture is from my first session in a professional dungeon and I’ll never forget it. It’s the first time I experienced serious dom-drop and it made me realise how much I need this.
If you’d like to be a part of my journey in becoming a professional dominatrix, then please check out my wishlist or book a training session with me!
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