Build-A-Slut

Post #6: Build-a-slut

Does ‘‘build-a-bear’’ still exist? That store where you can custom build your own teddy bear. I remember always wanting to go there as a child. I would fantasise about picking out each detail of my future plushie. Every choice being as important as the next, from the colour of the nose to the button eyes and accessories. Even in my fantasy my perfectionism was showing. I would go through all the choices I’d make over and over again… picking, assembling and looking at my imaginary build-a-bear. I really enjoyed making all these decisions and creating something from scratch. Maybe that’s why I became an artist, and maybe that’s why I love being dominant.

As an adult I’ve continued to play with toys, but instead of plushies I play with subs. I love a good slutty sub, needy or a bit bratty, eager to be used, charismatic and a sense of servitude. Not every sub is a slut, and not all sluts are the same. But I do love all sluts in every way they possibly can be. Just like my meticulous build-a-bear fantasies I enjoy building my own sluts. But I’m not interested in creating a characterless cookie cutter line of build-a-sluts like the bear franchise. I have my preferences, but it’s each persons own charisma, kinks and style that makes moulding them into my slut exciting.

When I first meet a potential new sub, we go through all their kinks, fetishes and soft/hard boundaries. From there I can see what we have in common and what spikes my interest. Some people bring out things in me that I never knew existed. Meanwhile others allow me to deepen my practice. Apart of building my own slut is deciding their aesthetics, what type of slut they are, their degree of servitude and what form of pleasure they’ll specialise in. All of this in accordance to our conversations of who they are. Taking into account personality and personal interests as well as kinks/boundaries.

At the end of the day it’s my choice to decide what features to accentuate or not. Slut training is something I’m still learning and happens to be my mentor Queen Li’s specialty. It’s something I’ve always enjoyed but haven’t understood can be a whole specialisation of it’s own. My mentor has developed a thorough slut training program that she uses for her subs and I can’t wait to create my own.

So what exactly do I desire for my build-a-slut? I can’t really go into detail yet, but size training with my strap-on is a non-negotiable. If you’d like to be a part of my journey in becoming a professional dominatrix, then please check out my wishlist or book a training session with me!