Category: Slut Training

  • Creating The Grrrl of Your Dreams (& Forced Feminisation)

    Post #12: Creating the grrrl of your dreams (& Forced Feminisation)

    Femininity is truly divine, so I’m not surprised when I meet men who want me to push them into the feminine. As a queer person I often find myself exploring different ways of expressing my gender, sometimes being more masculine and others more feminine. So wanting to explore other gender expressions isn’t odd to me. Masculinity is a rigid expression, it doesn’t allow a lot of creativity in comparison to femininity. At the same time femininity can quickly feel like a cage when others don’t understand it’s vastness. Both ends of expression bare societal expectations that push and pull us, sometimes giving us joy whilst other times becoming a burden.

    What I enjoy about playing with forced feminisation is how it allows me to question what femininity is. Normally what’s expected in a forced feminisation scene is a nearly flamboyant girly girl slut aesthetic (an aesthetic I personally love!). But what happens when we dive deeper into what femininity truly is? What is it you long for when imagining the feminine? Who are you when you’ve finally become the girl of your dreams?

    Is it in the clothes or the way you walk? Is it your sensuality or sensitive nature? Perhaps what’s no longer expected of you? Or is it what is expected of you? Maybe you’re finally just being yourself? Or maybe you just want to dip in and then out? What does it sound like when you cum? Are you allowed to let it all out? Maybe it’s a certain body you connect to the feminine? Perhaps it’s the life force and creation?

    Femininity is a vast space to play in, we can go deep into the fringes of taboos or come closer to your reality. I can rid you of expectations or make you into what’s expected. I love the moulding aspect of forced feminisation, how it allows me to create and prey. It gives me the permission to turn you, just like a vampire turning a mortal.

    If you’d like to be a part of my journey in becoming a professional dominatrix, then please check out my wishlist or book a training session with me!

  • My Slutty Little Pet

    Post #9: My slutty little pet

    What if I made you my slutty little pet? Forcing you to wear the make-up of my choice. What if I sat you down and tied you up? Fixing your hair and dolling you up. If I made you my slutty litte pet, I’d put a corset on you to accentuate your waist. I’d make your eyes look big and innocent with eyeshadow and liner. Then use my favourite Shiseido lash curler. You’d get fake lashes and lipgloss, even some blush. I’d do anything to make you look like my perfect little slut.

    

I’d bend you over and shave you clean, making sure there’s not a hair to be seen. I’d lube you up and give you a tail, then sit you right back down. I’d tie your hands behind your back and shave your most private parts. Then I’d lock you up and put a cute thong on you, then collar you with your little pet name.

    If I ever had a little pet then it would be the sluttiest I’ve ever seen. I’d dress it up and whore it out, making them service anyone in need. I’d make sure their mouth was always in use, no dick in my vicinity would ever be dry. If I made you my slutty little pet, you would beg and squirm and cry.

    If you’d like to be a part of my journey in becoming a professional dominatrix, then please check out my wishlist or book a training session with me!

  • Build-A-Slut

    Post #6: Build-a-slut

    Does ‘‘build-a-bear’’ still exist? That store where you can custom build your own teddy bear. I remember always wanting to go there as a child. I would fantasise about picking out each detail of my future plushie. Every choice being as important as the next, from the colour of the nose to the button eyes and accessories. Even in my fantasy my perfectionism was showing. I would go through all the choices I’d make over and over again… picking, assembling and looking at my imaginary build-a-bear. I really enjoyed making all these decisions and creating something from scratch. Maybe that’s why I became an artist, and maybe that’s why I love being dominant.

    As an adult I’ve continued to play with toys, but instead of plushies I play with subs. I love a good slutty sub, needy or a bit bratty, eager to be used, charismatic and a sense of servitude. Not every sub is a slut, and not all sluts are the same. But I do love all sluts in every way they possibly can be. Just like my meticulous build-a-bear fantasies I enjoy building my own sluts. But I’m not interested in creating a characterless cookie cutter line of build-a-sluts like the bear franchise. I have my preferences, but it’s each persons own charisma, kinks and style that makes moulding them into my slut exciting.

    When I first meet a potential new sub, we go through all their kinks, fetishes and soft/hard boundaries. From there I can see what we have in common and what spikes my interest. Some people bring out things in me that I never knew existed. Meanwhile others allow me to deepen my practice. Apart of building my own slut is deciding their aesthetics, what type of slut they are, their degree of servitude and what form of pleasure they’ll specialise in. All of this in accordance to our conversations of who they are. Taking into account personality and personal interests as well as kinks/boundaries.

    At the end of the day it’s my choice to decide what features to accentuate or not. Slut training is something I’m still learning and happens to be my mentor Queen Li’s specialty. It’s something I’ve always enjoyed but haven’t understood can be a whole specialisation of it’s own. My mentor has developed a thorough slut training program that she uses for her subs and I can’t wait to create my own.

    So what exactly do I desire for my build-a-slut? I can’t really go into detail yet, but size training with my strap-on is a non-negotiable. If you’d like to be a part of my journey in becoming a professional dominatrix, then please check out my wishlist or book a training session with me!